Fixing a boring life is simple but not necessarily easy.
So with that in mind, let me help you.
To fix a boring life, you have to ask yourself, what do you like to do?
Is it sports, board games, dancing, etc? Then go out and find a group that takes part in these activities. And the beauty of these is once you start attending regularly, you’ll start expanding your social network and this could lead to new friendships or romantic interests. You have to put yourself in the arena to reap the rewards.
Another thing to do is to find a personal project. This could be writing, working out, making videos, side hustle. Anything that you can do on your own. You want this to be your creative outlet or something you can put your heart and soul in. Whatever it is you do, you might suck at first, but over time you’ll see there will be many benefits. For example, I like to make Youtube videos and this has improved my skillset for public speaking, editing, and creating content. I’m sure there is more, but you get the idea.
And last but not least, reach out to old friends and rekindle those friendships. This will require you to take initiative, but it’s totally worth it. Either once a week or bi-weekly, find friends and schedule coffee or something. Invest in these relationships, and then next thing you know, they might invite you out, introduce you to their social circle etc.
Life should not be boring, it should require effort, excitement, sadness, and all the other emotions on the wheel. You want to be able to fo to bed knowing you lived your best life.